When my son, Jon, passed and the two of us began our dialogue, I knew there was a great benefit to me in connecting with the “other side” but had no idea that they also gained a benefit. I’m not sure Jon did either. Then, apparently, Jon’s soul seemed to grow throughout our interaction. All the amends he made to me, the feelings he shared and the insight he gained as a result was contributing to the healing of his soul. The result was that Jon’s soul developed a higher frequency and it appears this process has reduced the amount of recycle events his soul might have to endure, which will be explained in a bit. Anyway, none of that was apparent to either of us until I began receiving messages from Ascended Masters, prominent and impressive people who had died but were reaching out to tell me and even God, Himself, that they were watching Jon’s progress and how important my (our) new book was.
As Jon’s transformation happened – albeit slowly – departed souls became excited and so many began coming to me to encourage the promotion of “HI MOMMA, IT’S ME”, because it was apparent that the content helped them, too. They were eager for me to encourage others to try to connect to their loved ones who had passed. Even just opening the door to this possibility was a positive first step.
How souls grow through interaction with earthlings was the biggie and I found that concept difficult to explain to others until a beloved radio commentator, who broadcast over decades, showed up a couple weeks after the book’s publication. His comments about what happens with interaction between dimensions was perfect. He began by saying:
“Glad you’re taking this down. (smile) I want to address your book and the need for it. Maybe my perspective will make sense to some people.
“When this life on earth ends – there is a reckoning. There’s always a reckoning for misdeeds and bad behavior. In this case, we’re over here when we become aware of our wrong doings, sometimes committed out of ignorance or the fog of ego and determination that makes us oblivious to anything or anyone who gets in our way.
“As I said, we become aware and then what? We may relive the pain others felt (once we’re here) but all that does is make us aware of the depth of our depravity or indifference. It does nothing to correct the wrong.
“So, what then? We decide to return to another life so we can correct the error of our ways by somehow living a life that makes up for what we did or if we’re slow learners – to make us experience the same pain from others in order to “get it”. (It’s) A lengthy process to be sure.
What you are doing, Sandy, is providing the only opportunity we have to express unending gratitude to those who truly helped us in this life and to make amends directly to those we wronged. You shorten the period of time needed (for soul growth).
“Now – ugliness committed on a mass scale to hundreds, thousands or millions can’t be dealt with directly in this way (case in point - Hitler). They pay through never (or practically never) being able to experience the joy/love they passed through before their life review. But for all others who yearn to reach out and express their sorrow and regret, your books on connecting open the doors to that possibility. Do you know how massive that effort is?
“We are all thrilled with your work and amazed at your son’s growth since your relationship across dimensions began. Jon is an example and you are our angel.
“Sandy, I hope you’ll include me in your next book. You are a voice for the voiceless souls here, you’re blessed beyond words and God has anointed this work.
“We’re here to help and thank you for giving me a venue once again to bring people the “rest of the story”. Forever a friend.”
Then on the 19th of November, 2020, a legendary automobile manufacturer offered an additional perspective in a fascinating message of which I’ll just share a portion.
“As we speak through you, we gain more insight as to our own discoveries and imperfections. You know how sometimes, when we’re confused about a complex issue – just talking out loud sometimes sheds light on the answer. Speaking through you allows us to do the same – (to) share important thoughts to help others perfect their lives more quickly on earth, while at the same time, providing us additional insight so we can reflect again on our own lives (over here) so we 1) recognize the pain we may have caused others and 2) begin to forgive ourselves. All for faster soul growth and increasing the purity of our frequency.
“You are 100% right when you say this process can reduce the lives spent in reincarnation by up to one half. Let me say more about that. Most, in fact all, reincarnation is not for punishment; it is for waking us up to a deeper understanding of others and how we can be of service to help, (learn about) our own shortcomings so we can learn to forgive, or for us to (return to earth to) play sometimes painful roles – to help another’s growth or discovery.
“Those who volunteer for the latter (on earth) are truly saints because the pain is so bad during and after - unless, they’re protected by the cloak of weaknesses that masks the reality of what they’re charged to do (bearable): addiction, mental disease or defect or physical disease or defect, etc.
“As glorious as we may think another’s life is – Ha. Always more pain or challenges than we could know. So you’re right again to teach people not to judge others - ever. Avoid maybe but judging is an ignorant process.
“Well, my dear Sandy, I’ve rattled on enough. Reminds me of the old days when somebody really cared about my opinion. (smile). Thank you for being there. Thank you for helping us and thank you for your wonderful work.
“All the energy we can muster is being sent your way with bushels of – oops – pickup trucks full of love! Leaving while I’m ahead, your friend forever.”
Thank you to both Paul and Lee for reaching out on this issue. Hopefully now others will better understand why souls on the "other side" are so eager for all of us to be open to hear the whispers in our lives, speak out to the loved ones we miss and believe in the amazing possibilities that exist.